By
Judy Bermant
'Bearded, w ith cigarette forever smouldering between his lips,
he shuffles round the house in a moth eaten cardigan. Calls himself
a writer and pokes away at this typewriter, while he talks to
himself. He can be seen early in the morning and late at night,
strolling through the streets of the suburb, hands waving, that
never ending cigarette burning. '. To this, his self portrait
in Belshazzar, - a story of our family seen through the
eyes of a cat - I would add that Chaim Bermant was a tall, burly
figure with a noble, domed head, normally very sunburnt from constant
walking and gardening. He looked like something of a cross between
a benevolent Santa Claus, and a biblical patriach, with wild curly
hair (what was left of it!) and a wild, curly thicket of a beard,
full of whimsical touches and witty asides, and a mischievous
glint in his eye. He had a shy, almost comical way of looking
at people and a great, deep chuckle. An extraordinarly loveable
man, he was undeniably charismatic and unforgettable, both in
personality and in his physical presence. He was also something
of a frustrated actor and used any opportunity to perform! He
was much sought after as a public speaker, although people rarely
understood anything he said, owing to his thick scottish accent
with it's underlying yiddish intonation.
Chaim was completing Genesis, the first volume of his projected
five part autobiography, when he died of heart failure on 20 January
1998, aged 68. Two days previously, he had returned from Israel
where he had met survivors of his shtetl Barovke, in Latvia, whose
existence we had discovered only a week earlier. He was immensely
excited about this, and hoped to incorporate some of the notes
he had made during this trip into what was to become his final
book.
Genesis: A Latvian childhood was published posthumously in
May 1998. It describes the first nine years of Chaim's life, growing
up in a remote Latvian village where his father was Rabbi, up
to the moment when the Bermant family left for Glasgow shortly
before the outbreak of the Second World War. In a way, Genesis
encapsulates everything that was Chaim. Brimful of 'Bermantian
observations and quirky characters, it is also wry and funny,
bucolic and earthy, sharp and witty, tender and poignant, all
in turn!
Chiam Ikyk Bermant was born in Breslev, a frontier town on
the Polish border on 26 February 1929. He was the third of four
children born to Rabbi Azriel and Faige Bermant, and the only
son. He was four when his Father became the Rabbi, shochet (ritual
slaughterer) and general factotum in Barovke. There, amid lakes,
streams and forests, he, his three sisters and his parents lived
there until, in 1938, Rabbi Bermant acquired a new position in
Glasgow, thanks to personal intervention from relatives living
there. In Glasgow, Chaim attended Queen's Park School and Glasgow
Yeshiva (Talmudical College). He later spent a year at the Bachad
Kibbutz training farm in Thaxted, a year organising Bnei Akiva
in Scotland and Sunderland, and a further year in Israel.
He eventually graduated from Glasgow University in 1955 with
an MA and an M.Litt. in Politics and Economics and went on to
gain an M.S.c in Econonmics in the London School of Econonmics
in 1957. During this period, in order to supplement his grant,
he taught economics, mainly to Arab students, at a Further Education
College in Tunbridge Wells. He also worked for two years as a
schoolmaster - an experience he hated but later exploited in several
of his novels.
Although Chaim had long nursed ideas of hecoming an author and
journalist and had contributed to a variety of newspapers and
journals from his teens onwards, he had chosen Economics and Politics
at university rather than English Language and Literature. He
was convinced that this was a wise choice and it served him well
in later years. In 1957, Chaim became a scriptwriter for John
Grierson at Scottish Television and later for Sidney Bernstein
at Granada, where he was a colleague of Jeremy Isaacs, working
on programmes such as 'Searchlight' and 'World in Action'. In
1961 he began work for the Jewish Chronicle and became its Features
Editor from 1964 to 1966.
Chaim was writing a series of articles on the 'Independent Synagogue'
when we met and - after a whirlwind courtship - married in 1962.
Chaim had been visiting the Stamford Hill Adath Synagogue, founded
by my great-grandfather Julius Lunzer (and where later we were
to be married), when I found myself sitting next to him at the
Kiddush and lunch to which we were both invited. Chaim was being
attacked as a representative of the Jewish Chronicle and I was
doing my best to defend him. This was at the height of the cause
celebre known as the 'Jacobs Affair' which had been taken up by
lewish Chronicle editor William Frankel (1958-77): Rabbi Louis
Jacobs, a highly admired teacher and thinker, had written the
book We Have Reason to Believe. The views he expressed in that
book led to his rejection as principal of Jews' College (and possibly
for the post of Chief Rabbi as well).
Our first daughter, Alisah Yona, was born the next year, 1963'
and was followed shortly afterwards by Chaim's first novel in
print, Jericho sleep alone. The title was culled from a
character in Les Enfants du Paradis, a film Chaim much admired.
Jericho was the first of a string of novels that were to flow
from his pen, and in 1966 he felt secure enough to take the brave
- some said reckless - step of going freelance. By this time,
we were expecting our second child and had moved from a three-room
flat in Hampstead to a sizeable home in Hampstead Garden Suburb
- with a sizeable mortgage to match! It was a risky step to take,
but one that neither of us ever regretted. Chaim had at last fulfilled
his dream. He had his own study, surrounded by his books and his
'livestock' - as he described us. He was in his element!
Although he often described himself as lazy, he was in reality
highly self-motivated and rigorously disciplined, and he set himself
a punishing daily routine from which he rarely deviated. By 1972
we had four children, two daughters and two sons. To quote Chaim's
own words: 'We were living from hand to mouth, but it was a large
hand and an even larger mouth. Any self-employed writer who manages
to feed himself and his family and keep his house in a reasonable
state of repair, is extremely lucky!'
At this stage, 1973, we tried Aliyah en famille for the first
time and stayed a year. We repeated this again ten years later.
On both occasions Chaim ended up as Correspondent for The Obseruer,
first during the Yom Kippur War and then in the 1983 war in Lebanon.
When, in 1974, we returned to our London home, Chaim wrote several
books on Israel, including Coming Home, his first attempt at autobiography.
The book mirrored the conflict between his need to develop further
as a writer in Britain and my emotional ties with Israel.
Chaim had been a regular contributor to the Ben Azai column in
the Jewish Chronicle since the late 1950s. By the mid-1960s he
was the author of the paper's'Personal Opinion'column, and in
1979 'Personal Opinion' became 'On the Other Hand', under Chaim's
own by-line and photograph. He used his column to write about
Jewish life and tradition with Iyrical warmth and humour, but
also to expose its intolerances and absurdities, whenever and
wherever they occurred.
He became unofficial ombudsman to the Jewish community at large,
and, no matter how many deadlines he had or how busy he may have
been, he always had time for those who sought his help, whether
it was a wouldbe convert to Judaism, an Agunah (chained woman)
seeking a 'Get' (Jewish divorce) from an absent or recalcitrant
husband, or perhaps just an aspiring young journalist starting
out in his or her career. He never, ever turned anyone away, and
I do not imagine anyone knew of the huge postbag of letters and
number of phone calls he answered, nor of the amount of time he
would give to talking with people who were in need of help and
advice.
As Anglo-Jewry's columnist-in-chief, he also became the community's
voice of conscience and for 40 years he castigated, ridiculed
or praised its foremost figures and institutions. William Frankel,
writing about Chaim after his death, called him 'Anglo-Jewry's
Jonathan Swift'. Chaim felt it to be his responsibility, like
the prophets he so admired, to admonish, educate and point the
way forward. This he always endeavoured to do with considerable
erudition, elegance and wit. He was also, unfortunately, prophetically
ahead of his time. He was the first to suggest that Jewish hands
were responsible for some of the worst bombing outrages against
Palestinian Arabs, and in presaging the eventual growth of a violent
Jewish underground. He was vilified for this from all sides as
a 'self-hating Jew' but the attacks never deflected him from the
courage of his convictions. He argued for talks with the Palestinians
and the PLO long before anyone else was doing so. Chaim was not
only very critical of the abuse of human rights in Israel, but
he also relentlessly pointed out inconsistencies and injustice
in general, and, in particular, the fanatical right-wing Jewish
nationalism and the blinkered vision developing within Orthodox
Rabbinic opinion. He felt this to be a betrayal of the humanity
that he believed is inherent in Jewish ethical teaching. Naturally,
this gave rise to a great outcry against him, and daily calls
to the Jewish Chronicle (and to ourselves personally) to have
him sacked, as well as to regular death threats. In addition to
his impact rhrough the printed word, he was influential behind
the scenes in Arab-Jewish dialogue. Nothing in his life caused
him greater anguish than to see so many of his repeated warnings
become a daily reality in Israel.
Chaim also wrote regularly for national newspapers and journals
(The Sunday and Daily Telegraph, The Observer, The Guardian, The
Independent and The Times newspapers, among others). He wrote
regular obituaries, columns under his own by-line, profiles, book
reviews, opinion and travel pieces, and so on. He even wrote a
food column for The Independent until he was rumbled: he could
only write about fish and even that was restricted because of
kashrut observance! Chaim also wrote scripts for radio and television,
including the BBC play Pews and several for Anglia's 'Tales of
the Unexpected'. He appeared in several productions in person,
including, in 1981, one of the BBC's 'Everyman' series which featured
our family just before our eldest son's Barmitzvah. He published
over 30 fiction and non-fiction books, and contributed to and
edited many more.
Chaim's 'Personal Opinion' column for the Jewish Chronicle was
also syndicated in other Jewish newspapers throughout the world,
such as the Los Angeles Jewish Times and the Australian Jewish
News. He was invited on lecture tours in many countries - America,
South Africa and, most recently, Australia in 1994, where he was
invited to meet his 'critics'. He managed, in turn, both to infuriate
and to charm them. Our first meeting in Sydney was a reception
with a group of Jewish businessmen, very hawkish politically.
They were totally opposed to Chaim's visit, which had been organised
by the Australian Institute of Jewish Affairs, and furious that
they had been overruled. When we entered that boardroom and looked
around the table, we thought we were facing a Iynch mob; you could
have cut the atmosphere with a knife. One after the other, each
got up and spoke of their anger with Chaim'sJewish Chronicle column.
They all labelled him a cold-hearted cynic who drew blood only
in order to shock. When they had finished speaking and sat down,
there was a pause. Chaim sat quietly for a moment. Then he slowly
got up, drew himself up to his full height and spoke in even,
measured tones, without notes, for a considerable time. Using
his remarkable intellect, and his knowledge of world affairs and
Jewish history, he delivered a passionate and polemical battery-charge
that utterly demolished their arguments. Much more than that,
they understood at last that this was no cynical journalist manipulating
his pen to poison for its own sake, but a man of honour and principle
who wrote as he did because he stood by the truth of what he was
saying. By the time he sat down there was no one in that room
who doubted his sincerity and depth of feeling. His greatest antagonist
became his greatest ally, and was to be seen sitting at the forefront
at each of Chaim's subsequent lectures. This reminds me of the
time, 15 years earlier in South Africa, when Chaim attacked his
hosts, the Jewish Board of Deputies, for their lack of courage
in not taking a much stronger stand against apartheid. We were
never invited again.
Chaim tried hard to live up to the high standards of decency
and integrity that he expected from others, whether speaking out
on major world issues, or in smaller, more personal incidents.
For example, he would not accept any of the 'freebies' commonly
offered to journalists, as he did not want his independence of
spirit to seem compromised in any way.
After his death, we received letters from many hundreds of people,
some known to us and, touchingly, many who were not. There was
a letter from a Catholic lady who offered prayers and recited
a daily Mass for his soul. The Muslim Women's Helpline wrote to
say their members found Chaim inspirational. A prison inmate,
who had been corresponding with Chaim, wanted to start a 'Chaim
Bermant fan-club' and a Welsh clergyman donated money to a Glasgow
Synagogue to purchase siddurim in Chaim's memory. This is a random
sample of people who wrote to say that they had once picked up
aJewish Chronicle, read his column (or one of his books), and
were hooked for life. Even hardened Fleet Street journalists wrote
warmly to say the same.
Above all, Chaim cared about people. He was a deeply affectionate
family man who enjoyed nothing better than to have his close family
and friends gathered round his Shabbat table. He delighted in
being a committed Jew and a valued member of his community.
For me, he was a man who looked a little like I imagine Moses
(one of his heroes) might have looked, an enchanting companion,
brimful of chein and mischief, my loving and beloved husband,
and, as Rabbi Tony Bayfield so memorably described him, 'A bit
of a miracle'.
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